well, no not my only kid....I have a daughter thats 15 back in TX. I pay child support, but have never met her. Don't go on about how I need to meet her and everything. I told her mother that IF she ever wanted to meet me,we would arrange things. SO far, nada. and I've heard it all before so don't go on about it please
You never met her i hope is your kid did you guys do a paternity test? That would suck if your ex wife/girl just told you she was yours just to get money out of you you will be paying child support for a kid thats not yours.
Hey, I'm 35 and have permenant cutsody of one of my two children. I have my boy and my ex has my girl. That's very tough all on its' own not to mention what it does to the kids. There isn't a day goes bye that I wish Everything was different.
Paul how did you get custody of your kid usually the girl is the one who ends up keeping both kids and the dad just gets visitation time. reason i am asking is because my bro has been having problems with his girlfriend and they have one daughter and another on the way he really doesnt want anything to do with her anymore but he stays with her because of his kids and not to mention his girl is an illegal he fears she might go back to mexico and he will never see his kids again. You think he has a chance of atleast getting custody of one kid? Anyways whats your aim i dont wanna post my life story here lol
No aim. I'm still civil to my ex and we worked out an arrangement where we would have joint custody. She would have both kids for two weeks then I would have them two weeks. When My son started school he came to live with me full time. The shcool district where I live is much better than hers. It just worked out that my daughter was with her and my son with me. We both agreed to keep the grubby lawyers out of the loop. They only turn normal ppl into monsters. Broke ones at that.
Just 4-5 miles apart. We swap turns for the weekends with them. They're the only consistency they have. So far it's worked out. Still not easy being a single parent. Your life revolves around the child. 5-6 more years and things smooth on out. Also nice is my sister is only 4 miles away and is a stay at home mother, perfect for in a pinch babysitting.
Yeah I used to be the club hopping, party going kind of guy who finally wanted to settle down. I did but married a woman who decided later she wasn't. Now I go to work, come home and take care of the boy, see to it all the crap that needs to be done is, pop open a beer and f@ck around here at night.
Enjoy life when you're young guys, it really can zoom on by.