I love extremely loud music and am wondering if it is possible to get the same heart pounding bass and ear shattering highs in a home audio setup as you have in a car? If so, what would be the best recommendations.
Kidding aside, you should be more careful with your hearing or you won't be enjoying it for long.
But for all-out loudness, the number you have to look up is speaker sensitivity, expressed in dB at 1m and 1W input. Some Klipsch horn-loaded speakers that Nuck mentionned have a rating of 104 dB/1W/1m. 100 Watts per channel into those are as loud as 4000 Watts per channels into avearge 88 dB/1W/1m speakers (if they could take it, and if the power was avalaible cleanly). I have 4 of them in my HT/stereo setup.
Brands with high sensivity speakers include Klipsch, Cervin Vega, JBL, and other horn-loaded designs. For more vintage gear on ebay and elsewhere.
PF, son, and I use that term because it seems like you are very young, by the time your ear starts to ring or get pressure build up, there is already damage done to it.